Weakness...hmm?

Weakness or your strongest? is it really true... that your weakness is really your strongest?


the best way to know it is to identify your weak points...evaluate it.. and weigh the pros and cons, where am I good at, and the things that im not good at.. as you realize those things, you can now see your limitation.. actually weakness is your limitation.. for example a blind man cannot see and drive in the road by himself.. of course without all those technology car stuff... that is one of the limitations of a blind man... to give you one example.. a blind man will need to have someone to depend on.. when doing this kinds of stuff to let someone drive him into his destination... which is a man who is qualified to drive...


and as you identify your weaknesses you must be open about it and start to welcome it with all your heart... by doing this you will learn to be a humble person... because this will make you remember that hey your not perfect and you can not always do the things you want.. try to be humble you are not the strongest person here!! so be careful of everything you do... knowing your weakness is an opportunity for us to socialize...how? simply by letting others help us, depending on others, not totally depending but we can have a helping hand.. through this we can build relationship.. good relationship.. this is the good side of knowing your limitations and in some way really helpful to us...

through are weakness we can benefit others, like when we ask for their help and they notice the fact that they are needed by others, too.. they will feel important.. and that will boost their self esteem... to do things they are good at... well these thing will be helpful for all of us.. because we are not that good and perfect to do all the things... we are made to live with others, to help each other and fill those spaces in each and everyone of us... ^*____*^

Releasing Tension

Some of us just don't know how to control our temper, some do know. but really majority of us today doesn't know how. controlling your temper is a very good way when releasing tension, controlling ourselves is one of the way that we should learn to master, not really master but at least we should have the upper hand when it comes to different kinds of situation we are facing.

Let me give you an example, when we are talking to someone and suddenly the conversation starts to heat up between you and the person and he started to raise his voice.. what should you do? will you raise your voice too? will it help? i think not. it will make the things more complicated. to avoid this kind of situation you should always remember to be patient.. slowly breath in, release the things that are unnecessary in your mind at that moment.. try to calm down and talk in a very calm voice as you converse with the person.. bear in mind that talking in this way can make the conversation better.. and can make the things more comfortable between you two.. and as the situation becomes comfortable i think you can talk to each other better.. explaining the things in a very nice way without shouting to each other...

Being angry is unavoidable sometimes, but it is how you handle that mood.. how you can lessen the tension.. when you learn how to control this things you can think properly and of course now you can make decisions properly.. making decisions when your angry can affect the things involved in it.. so it is much better to cool things up before doing anything else, learn to evaluate the situation... will this make the situation better? or will this make the situation worst? questions like this can help a lot when you are starting to control your temper.... this are the things that i learned, i hope this can help some of you guys out there!!!

Masterpiece

A creation or a piece of work that is made with extraordinary skill, or we can also call it a supreme achievement.. Like us.. we are all a Masterpiece. we are all unique.. carefully planned with precision.

All of us have something to offer, we all have purpose. so don't be discouraged and think that you are not worthy to be here. whether your small, tall, thin, fat.. or whatever reasons you have. we are all worthy and should be worthy to be alive..

So we better be thankful because were here.. and become an inspiration to other people that are facing problems dealing with his or her self confidence to face the world. Maybe if we understand that we are all different and created according to our purpose here, then i think we can be a better person not only thinking of ourselves but also other people.. we must not forget that we are all equal in the eyes of god. ^*____*^

JUST A PHOTO???

I was thinking of something to write just now.. finding a topic to discuss when i stumbled to this very intriguing photo, which i think is not just your ordinary photo. This photo have a story to tell, actually i was really really curious about the message the artist and photographer want to tell to its audience.. are they just showcasing their imagination? creativity? the model? the design? for whatever reason it still depends on how you see the picture..and how you interpret it. What do you think? very clever idea was put into this photo i guess. All people have different things in their mind, so we cannot really tell. Only you can tell what your talking about i guess.. but there is one thing that you can do to be heard, and sharing your thoughts is one good example. everyone is allowed to talk, everyone is allowed to share their opinions, nobody can stop you, except yourself. Like this photo here, what really is it trying point out.

After pondering with my thoughts, I come to a conclusion that their theme for these photo is like a green world theme?? i think to show that the humans are in control of the situation. whew!! well now i guess, i am advertising this photo to be a world lover guy, but really i think this things are necessary or may i say vital to each and everyone one of us to know, we have very powerful BRAINS we are not that dumb not to know this kinds of stuff.


Seeing this photo make me realize that our earth is disappearing. the trees are nowhere to be found, the animals are slowly losing their habitats, seeing and imagining this makes me worry about the things that will happen soon enough.. this will cause a chain reaction that will not just affect us, but all of the things here on our earth. when this happens it is really possible that we humans will all be a part of history itself. I guess we don't want that to happen, but what i am talking about is reality. it is happening now. And we better act now before its too late..

"The beauty is in the eye of the beholder," they say. Its up to you now to see things differently. I just want you to visualize what i am saying.. and maybe you'll see the photo the way im seeing it.. the beauty that can be preserved if want to..

Better than your Porn sites guys!!

i was surfing the net just now, and i come into this website.... haha!! not the one your thinking about!! lol! okay!! this website is indeed a very good one. they are like called the orphan helper blog site i think... yeah i think that's it.(this photo was taken from their site)

Actually i was really intrigued by their site, because of the things that they are doing... obviously helping the orphans, not just bringing food, educating and giving their time is also part of the package isn't it nice. which i think is very helpful for the orphans, giving your time to someone is one of the best things that you can offer, its a portion of your life that you can share with them and those moments will be with them forever that they can cherish, saying to themselves "someone cared for me, i am not alone."

the thing that i am saying is that we too can help others. everyone can help everyone. YOU just have to put your time, effort, and of course MONEY. haha NO not really. you have to put yourself into whatever you are doing and that's it you can do everything. The DESIRE is all we need!! Desire to help others! You dont help others for publicity or some stupid reasons. Help because you want them to become better, help because it is the right thing to do. like them we too can help in our own ways, different ways.

it is such a nice feeling seeing the kids having fun, with the help of them of course, they are really nice and great people i think. They will help a lot of people. not in a blink of an eye.. but little by little they are going that way. stretching their arms to those kids that need help. And i am willing to help them.. not by going there with them, but spreading the words that there are people like them. That through writing i hope that i can lend my hand to them. Hoping that whoever people out there reading this will open their eyes, seeing clearly the world, seeing other people that need our help.

We can really contribute to helping others if we want, a little push is all we need.

P.S. The links to there site are in the upper right part corner.

Long time crush haha!! lol!

I have this crush on a girl when i was still a small guy, not knowing what embarrassment is all about. We were classmates, as far as i could remember during my 4th grade?. i think its in my 4th grade..yeah it was in 4th grade. This girl is beautiful and has a very strong personality, when i say strong it is really strong. lol!

She acts like a guy, and loves to be with guys. yeah very cool huh? and the thing that is so very fascinating about her is shes very open about things and her mood. if shes not in the mood she will show it to you. if she dont like you she will tell it to you..

there's this event during our break, i cant really remember what really happened she just told me yesterday the real deal. haha!!! i think i am still traumatized!! okay now continuing with my story, during our break she said to that shes showing off her new lunchbox!! and shes showing it off to our classmates, and i am not so happy about it.. because i think my lunchbox is a little bit old. So to spoil the happening, while she was showing off her lunchbox new model edition and with the foods inside it. I Kicked her chair! to the point that the juice shes drinking spills to her uniform. yeah and i think i was laughing my heartout during that time.. i cant even breath, i am very overwhelmed of what i just did..

BUT me not knowing the karate kid master is starting her so called karate kata ( a Japanese word describing detailed choreographed patterns of movements practiced either solo or in pairs.) woah!!! yeah she approached me and throws this very strong punch in my laughing face.

Shes like a terror girl beating the hell out of me.. i think during that time i was about to cry, but i just couldnt with all our classmates watching us. I just stared at her with my lefthand holding my face.. oh my im in a big trouble.. yeah even though i have a little crush on her during that time.

After that traumatizing incident.. hmm very embarrassing moment i think. I watch every move she make.. its like im doing a payback day attack haha!! not really. she really got me curious. as a kid during that time i think that we just bury the hatchet.. we just enjoy our school life again. i still remember going to their house.. playing? i really cant remember.. playing billiards?? after i finished 5th grade in our school.. we move out.. me going to another school.

fast forward ......... forward..........

ten years later

during our class, my classmates were talking about their happy moments during their gradeschool days..that's happiest thing i could remember, because every time this comes to my mind, I find my self laughing yeah just laughing. and that's how i remembered my longtime crush classmate that gave me a girl power super punch.. that i think one of the things that i wouldn't really forget!!! ha ha!!

i have her YAHOO MESSENGER account now..

And I am ready for round 2!!! hahaha!!!!